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Destroy The No.1 Barrier to Autistic Dating

Posted by Patient Zero September 14, 2025

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I “Integrated My Dark” Here’s What Happened PART 1

Posted by Patient Zero September 04, 2025

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My Autistic PDA Case For Toxicity

Posted by Patient Zero September 04, 2025

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A Healthier Way to Mask- 4 steps

Posted by Patient Zero August 18, 2025

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Too Autistic to be Normal, Too Normal to be Autistic: Bleeding On The Page

Posted by Patient Zero August 12, 2025

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The Underground ASD Playbook for Navigating the Workplace

Posted by Patient Zero August 11, 2025

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Destroy The No.1 Barrier to Autistic Dating

My brain has always wanted rules. That’s how it survives. If I can boil the chaos of people down to patterns and categories, maybe I won’t drown in it. But those rules turn into prisons. They teach me lies. One of the worst was that women are all the same. That if I could just crack the code once, I’d have the script forever. Black and white thinking did that to me. Autism did that to me. I walked into dating like it was a puzzle I could solve if I stared hard enough. But every time a woman didn’t fit the archetype in my head, I felt betrayed. I thought there was something wrong with her, or worse… something even more wrong with me. The mindset killed my shot at connection before it could begin. It stripped her individuality staring me in the face. It made me blind to the real her(s). Guess what happens when you operate with inaccurate data… The scripts failed me and I crashed, overthought things, shut down… I started resenting the world for not bending to my rules. I’ve sabotaged conn...

Wired To Resist: Autism, ADHD and PDA

Do you feel like a resistor in a world full of conductors? It feels like everyone else is plugged in, tuned in, moving with the current. While you’re burning out, sparking at both ends, trying not to explode from the sheer voltage of existence.

Too Autistic to be Normal, Too Normal to be Autistic: Bleeding On The Page

I’ll never be one of them. I’ll never be normal. I can wear the skin of normal, talk normal, walk normal and even… in short bursts… think normal (I assume) but in my bones I will always be who I am. And when I look towards the people who are what I am, I still don’t get the feeling I’m really allowed to feel like one of them.

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